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The main forms of depression are: major depressive disorder, also called "unipolar" for its affecting only one end of the mood
continuum -- depression; and bipolar disorder, formerly called manic-depressive illness, ("bipolar" for its affecting both ends of
the mood continuum -- depression and euphoria, or mania.) Depression can also present itself as dysthymia, a less intense
and more chronic form of depression. Major depression is far more common than bipolar disorder, and has a much wider range
of contributing factors.
What are depression?s effects on personal and family life?
The symptoms of depression described above make it clear: To be depressed is to suffer. The hopelessness and helplessness
that people experience when they are depressed is more than just a frame of mind at such times -- it is an entire way of being.
People stop trying, they stop caring, they withdraw from life, and of course, this makes them feel even worse. Their lives
deteriorate, and it affects others as well. Family members are not immune to the depressive?s negativity -- the never-ending
complaints, the steady stream of criticisms, the lack of emotional closeness, and the loss of the ability to have fun together.
Spouses can feel hurt and alienated, and children may feel guilty, resentful, and as if they are to blame. In turn, family
relationships can also exacerbate depressive symptoms.
How do you know when to seek help?
As a general answer, you should seek help when depression is starting to affect your life (your family, your job, your outlook) in
negative ways, and you are not very clear about what you need to do to prevent things from getting worse. You should seek help --
for yourself, loved ones, or both -- long before things get really bad.
To be more specific, take into account the following factors when deciding to seek professional treatment.
1) Suicidal thoughts or feelings: Suicide is a terrible and irreversible solution to specific problems. The depressed person and
his or her family need to think preventively, and get help immediately if someone is suicidal.
2) Acute depression turning chronic: Before settling into "life as a depressed person," the depressed person, and family if
possible, should do all they can to resolve it early on. Every day spent suffering is too costly.
3) Lifestyle disruption: The depressed person, and his or her family, can prevent bad circumstances from getting worse by acting
quickly. The depressed person does not have to ignore his or her health, lose a job, or hurt or alienate family and friends.
4) Reality testing: If a family and their depressed member do not have someone good to talk to, someone with whom they can
share their private thoughts, then how will they know whether what they are thinking makes sense? A good therapist is a valuable
partner for "reality testing."
What kinds of treatments are commonly used?
Psychotherapy and antidepressant medications are the two most commonly used treatments for managing depression. Many
people use a combination of the two. People?s responses vary, of course, but these approaches hold good promise for providing
Most people have already heard of the popular antidepressant medication, Prozac. It is only one of the many "newer generation"
medications that do, in fact, help the majority of people who take them. Medication is a valuable tool for reducing symptoms and
"raising the floor" on depression. Speaking to a psychiatrist about the use of medications in your particular case is the best way
to explore whether medications are viable for you. A psychotherapist can also help you with this decision.
Psychotherapy is an non-drug alternative that is generally as effective as medication, and in some ways is even superior (though
not quite as fast-acting). For example, people who receive therapy tend to have a lower relapse (recurrence) rate, and tend to feel
better as an active participant in the recovery process. Psychotherapy can help individuals and families who are dealing with
depression. The most effective psychotherapies are called cognitive therapy (which teaches how to identify and correct distorted
thinking), behavior therapy (which teaches how to behave more effectively), and interpersonal therapy (which teaches relationship
skills). All of these are short-term therapies, and all focus on changing things in the present.
The fact that long-term research shows the effectiveness of medication and psychotherapy for treating depression can be
wonderfully reassuring for depression sufferers and their families. Depression is highly responsive to good treatment, and good
treatment is available from a variety of sources.
References and Resources
American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy
Depression Awareness, Recognition, and Treatment (DART)
National Institute of Mental Health
5600 Fishers Lane, Room 10-85, Dept. GL
Rockville, MD 20857
Feeling Good Handbook, by David D. Burns. NAL/Dutton (1990). This book includes techniques that enable readers to cope with
a range of everyday problems such as depression. Presents ideas of cognitive therapy through exercises, self-tests, and forms.
Mind Over Mood. By Dennis Greenberger and Christine Padesky. Guilford (1995). This treatment manual draws on the authors?
extensive experience as clinicians and teachers of cognitive therapy to help readers successfully understand and improve their
moods, alter their behavior, and enhance their relationships.
The Shelter of Each Other. By Mary Pipher. Ballantine (1996). Offers thoughtful, practical strategies to reach families and help
them call upon their reserves of mutual nurture and support in the face of societal, cultural, and economic pressures. Challenges
readers to find the courage to nurture and revive the families they cherish.
Hand-Me-Down Blues: How to Stop Depression from Spreading in Families. By Michael Yapko. St.Martins (1999). Describes the
role of the family system in developing depression for both biological and developmental reasons, and teaches specific
strategies for helping families reduce and even prevent depression in their members.
Breaking the Patterns of Depression. By Michael Yapko. Random House/Doubleday (1997). A comprehensive, "user-friendly"
book that recommends an active, skill-building approach to self-help. Includes nearly 100 structured activities to engage the
reader in learning the skills to overcome depression.
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